When you mentioned that the “huge” person sitting by you on the plane was “properly apologetic” but still didn’t make your ride any better, it just made me feel worse. They should not have to be apologetic for their size! I would not want to sit by you on a plane, as you’d act as though my very existence is a bother to you, which there’s absolutely nothing I can do about. I’m sorry for how much inconvenience my weight causes you, but… well, all I can say is, please focus on being kind! All people have souls, and feelings, and aspects to their life other than their appearance and size.
Sorry if this turned into a rant.